Kicking and screaming

Court basically sucked.

The judge ordered us to sit and work out some details. My lawyer and I and Kyle....however, Jan decided she had to be there and refused to stay out, I didn't want her there and expressly said so. She insisted she wouldn't be talking to me. So faron came in too, for moral support for me.

She may not have spoken to me, but she made snipes about me and intended for me to hear, to Kyle the whole hour. It was awful, I finally lost my temper and told her to quit with the snipes. She looked behind her and said "is there someone else in here that she could be talking to?"
Faron lost his temper too and said "no, she's talking to the bitch across the table". Then my lawyer said everyone was acting like children. He was right.

her comments included such things as I'm a liar and I'm out to cheat, and how I'm not willing to pay for the cost of having renters in the home but I'm willing to benefit from having them (damn right bitch). How I'm stalling (this when I insisted on an appraisal of the home before it's listed) and how she hopes market values don't go down too far while I mess around and stall.

A basic chain of evidance was demanded, as per normal legal procedure....they sniped to my lawyer about me.....it wasn't me asking for it, it's the court.

Kyle insists that the Jeep I drive is marital property, given as a gift and that he should be entitled to half of it's value (which he places at $5000). The Jeep is owned by my father's company. My father still has the bill of sale in his own name. IT is also registared to my father. So I disputed that and Kyle made the talking hand sign at me. It was never a gift, it was lent to me.

He claims that he's been denied access to the girls.
Never, no ORDERED access has been denied to him.
He has asked for extra time, outside the outlined access terms, and I always say no now, because I learned my lesson after he screwed me so many times.

Well, we got a date set that Kyle has to provide full disclosure, which we wanted, but the rest was a disaster.
I'm so frustrated.

Kyle is saying he won't agree to having the Home Assessor (Dr. Clark)'s report signed into an order. So Kyle is asking for a special chambers hearing (at a cost of $4-5000) to settle the dispute.
Kyle is the one that insisted I was crazy and needed the assesment to prove it, now that the report is in and it did not support Kyle's claims, he doesn't agree with it.
So, I should be dragged through more court because Kyle says so?

When is someone going to start seeing this man for what he is? When is someone going to fight for me and tell Kyle to go eat worms?

Kyle's wife Jan? You'd think she could lend some integrity to this....no way man. She is worse than he is, she pours gasoline on his burning fires. Each time Kyle indicated complicity and reasonability, she jumped in and convinced him to do something else. She takes copious notes for him, tells him what to say, tells him what choice to make, tells him information etc.
Basically, she's like the 10 year old bully, egging on the 7 year old bully encouraging him to step it up, be a better bully.

I'm settled down a lot better now, but let me tell ya, most windows in Red Deer were in peril after court!

I just want it over.

Almost four years of his disgusting bullshit.

I just want it over.

Sometimes I think the only way it will be over is if a piano falls on his head.

I wish there were such things as genie's.

I don't want to be dragged through this any more.

I can't face any more wildly outlandish, and character slandering accusations and claims by these two.

No one in the courts know me, they don't know that I'm not a liar, so my word has no more weight than his does....but I KNOW he's lying and I know I'm not. And there isn't a damn thing I can do.

I just NEED someone to tell him to cut it out.
He complains about no money....well, stop with the legal battle!
He hasn't paid the girls school fees yet....at the school he insisted they attend....because he's had a "hard financial year".....lets see...he had a wedding....he went on a honeymoon on a plane to alaska for a week....he bought a house, he took 7 people to family camp for 10 days....he took 6 people on a ski trip for 4 days .....and he can't pay his children's school fees?

He WON'T pay his portion of their therapy bill, because apparently the reason they're in therapy is because of me.

He is perfectly content to let the tax payers carry the medical expenses of his children, his statement "I won't give her money for these because she probably already got reimbursed for them" My lawyer said "there is no need to accuse of double dipping".
He's accusing me of something, just because he can. He has no evidance, he just assumes.

I guess though, when someone lies and cheats and deceives all the time....they expect that everyone else does too.
ANd they're the CHRISTIANS???????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sanctimonious.
Hypocritical.

Who is going to clue him in that this isn't how christians are supposed to act? (1 -2 - 3 NOT IT!)

OHHHHH but you wanna hear what's funny?
Kyle stood up in front of the court, with his tag sticking out of the back of his pants. TEEHEEE! Talk about comic relief!