Busy!

I have been lax in blogging, it's been a busy few weeks, between midterms, and a research paper, being sick, having sick kids and a sick honey, I haven't really taken a breath, until now.



I was so happy to have earned an A on my midterms, it's very encouraging to have my diligence rewarded!



Both the girls are doing well in school, Leisha is my little mathematician, Jaala is my science geek (LOL!). Both of them are reading like crazy, reading to eachother, which I love!



Faron has been fighting bronchitis, but I think he's on the mend now, everytime he catches a cold, it turns into bronchitis, poor boy.

That's a BIG chest to be so wheezy, I can hear it across the room.

He has been such a stablizing influence on my life and my frame of mind. He encourages me to seek a different perspective and to release a lot of hostility. I love him!



Kyle is his usual shit head, ass gasket, jerk self. And his skanky blonde bitch is right there with him. ugh.

Of course, there is the incident, 2 months ago, when we were just getting the keys to our new house as Jan came to pick up the girls. It was a schmoze around here, girls just home from school, trying to get our movers here to help unload, and in the kuffufle, Leisha's bear got left in the jeep, Faron had left with the jeep, so we had to wait about 15 mins for him to return. While we were waiting, I told the girls to get out of the hot car and play until the bear arrived. Then, when it was time to actually leave, Lei lost it. The next 1/2 hour was spent trying to calm her and coax her into the car.

Instead of being honest, Jan lied about what happened, and Kyle has been trying to get revenge ever since. I think he's kept the girls at least 1/2 an hour late on every visit since then. Which pisses me off because it wrecks havoc in our home, keeps them up late on a school night, limits the reconnection time we get, which leads to bed time resistance, and the next morning, getting to school, is a nightmare. All just to be malicious to me, because I did what was right for his daughter, and his wife lied. So last night, Kyle wouldn't even let the girls finish their supper, rang the door bell repeatedly even after I asked him to stop, and when I said "you were half an hour late on sunday, you can wait 5 mins for them to finish eating" he went on a rant about that particular incident, 2 months ago. Grrr get the fuck over it.



Today, on the drive home from school, Jaala added another bit of news to the situation.

She said Jan told her, her father had been sitting on the computer chair for 2 days, only getting up to go to bed, and that Jan was tired of it and asked Jaala to go tell him he was being lazy. Jaala at that point told me that she didn't like what Jan told her to do, but she did it anyway.....she then caught shit from her father for saying that. Now, Jaala is pissed off at Jan for getting her in trouble, and not intervening and admitting that she was the one who prompted Jaala's statement.

Bitch.



First, don't send a child to relay a rude message for you.

Second, don't leave a little girl to get in trouble for doing what you told her.

Third, fight your own fricken battles and leave my daughter out of it. If you don't like the shit head sitting at the computer for two days, well, that's an issue of the marriage, not the step children.

Finally, stirring up shit, by lying, and omitting vital facts, in a "relationship" that is already hostile enough, is disgusting and immature.

Looks to me like Jan and Kyle are well suited for each other.

They're both unbearably hypocritical, stupid, liars.

And here is a very good quote, from a very dumb movie, that suits this situation just fine!

"I don't care if you don't like us 'cause we don't like you. You're a bad person with an ugly heart, and we don't give a flying f*ck what you think"

On a happier note, this is a picture I took of the sunset on a stormy evening, from my back deck. Spectacular!